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| 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men |
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| Posted on Saturday, October 25 @ 12:36:51 PDT by Editor |
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 Are there certain things you believe about men and relationships that can actually be HURTING your chances at real and lasting love? Learn the secrets to turning your failing relationship around without all the fighting, struggle and guesswork are all right here.
Are there certain things you believe about men and relationships that can
actually be HURTING your chances at real and lasting love?
Tell me if you agree with any of these statements about men:
-Men like a challenge. They like the chase. If you're too "easy" or
approachable, they'll get
bored or lose interest.
-Men are dominant in relationships and women therefore are unable to express
themselves.
-Men cheat and are incapable of being monogamous.
-Men would secretly love to date and sleep with different women the rest of
their life rather
than just have to stay with one serious committed relationship.
-Men just want to have fun and "freedom" and no responsibility.
Did you find yourself nodding at any of these?
Do you feel like having a fulfilling and connected relationship would be easy if
it weren't for the "hang-ups" men have about commitment or talking about how
they feel?
If so, then it's likely you're NOT experiencing the kind of easy, effortless
love that you want
and deserve with a man, simply because you don't UNDERSTAND what it takes for
him to:
A) feel "in love" with you
B) want to make you happy
C) want to devote himself to you and only you
That's why I'm about to offer you a little bit of insight into the 3 TRUTHS
about men and how
they really think and feel inside of relationships.
Here we go.
TRUTH #1: Men Don't Need To Chase
It's been said many times by many people that men need to be made to chase a
woman in order
to want her and commit wholeheartedly.
Not true.
In fact, this is plain wrong.
Rather than wanting to "chase" a woman, men are humans first.
Which means...
They want and need to feel a deep, emotional level of attraction for a woman if
they are going
to be moved to want bigger and better things with you in their life.
That everyday "Physical Attraction" a man can feel for any cute woman who walks
by is not
enough, and will never be enough to make him want something more than a casual
fling.
Long story short -
Men can and will want to get close to you even if they just feel this Physical
Attraction for you - and you'll likely have a hard time figuring out if they are
or aren't feeling that deeper and
more intense and lasting Emotional Attraction.
Not to mention, a man will get easily "bored" with you and be lazy about a
relationship or any kind of commitment if he's not feeling this Emotional
Attraction for you.
So what is Emotional Attraction?
Emotional attraction goes way beyond what a woman looks like, what she says or
how successful she is.
If a man senses that a woman knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after
it, and that
she has certain "standards" of what she will or won't put up with from a man,
then he will feel
incredibly drawn to her.
It has nothing to do with playing GAMES or pretending to be "hard to get."
If you think that men just want to "chase" a woman and that acting or being
"unavailable" is a turn-on for him, then I have to tell you right now, you're
not going to get far with a man.
What works to keeping a man interested in you date after date, week after week,
is something
magical that can only happen if he's feeling emotional attraction for you.
>> Tip: For a complete how-to on how to build emotional attraction in a man:
Click
here now!
TRUTH #2: Men Feel Emotions Just Like Women
Believe it not, men are pretty sensitive.
It's just how they handle what they feel that makes them hard to connect with
about it, and
hard to understand -
Unless you know what's going on with how men handle these things in the first
place.
Men have a hard time dealing with strong emotions from women.
So you know...in a recent groundbreaking study of how couples interact when in
conflict, it was
discovered that men often LOOK detached or withdrawn because they feel intensely
STRESSED by
the argument.
It's not that they're more "in control."
On the contrary - they feel LESS in control.
So they withdraw in order to try and cope.
Fascinating.
One of the things men often say to women when there's a conflict or tension in
the relationship
is, "why are you being so dramatic?"
Annoying, right?
That's his way of saying, "This is getting too intense and I don't know how to
handle it."
In my "Inside The Mind Of A Man" program I explain the SPECIFIC ways to speak to
a man about
anything difficult so he will RELAX and actually open up to you, instead of
telling you that YOU
are being "difficult" or "needy."
You have the power to bring him closer, even when you have something you need to
express that
isn't light or cheerful.
There are certain ways to bring up difficult subjects to a man that ENGAGE him
and make him want to do everything in his power to make you feel loved, safe and
comfortable.
Does it seem like an impossible feat?
It's not.
TRUTH #3: Men Want Relationships
Men want to be in a relationship, and they have a strong desire to feel
recognized as a great partner by their women.
Have you ever accused a man of being "not ready" for a relationship?
Here's a mind-blowing statistic: WOMEN (not men) break off relationships or file
for divorce
70% of the time.
That means that women are the ones initiating the end of a relationship much
more often than
men.
If that surprises you, you may also be surprised to know that a man enjoys being
in committed, loving relationships as much as a woman does.
AS LONG AS IT DOESN'T FEEL HARD TO HIM.
If you give a man the impression that he can't please you no matter WHAT he
does, or that everything he does is pointless because he can't do ANYTHING
right, then guess what?
He's going to wonder if he's the right partner for you, and he's going to begin
to doubt whether or not he should even continue the relationship.
Maybe you're saying, "but I don't do that!"
It's true. You may not even be aware that you're doing this.
But there are certain words and phrases that communicate this to a man whether
you're aware of
it or not.
Instead, when you show a man that you trust him to be a good partner to you, you
will actually
inspire him and trigger his devotion and attraction for you.
There are specific ways that women can let their fear, mistrust and
disappointment get in the way
of what could be a happy, long-term relationship.
Would you like to know what to DO and SAY to a man to inspire him to be a better
partner to you, WITHOUT accidentally communicating to him that your relationship
isn't working (for him)?
Then I strongly suggest you download my free Newsletter and
discover the secret
to finally understanding the most important things you'll ever learn about men
and how they think,
feel and why they do what they do in relationships.
Find out more about what to do and say to inspire a man rather than accidentally
pushing him
away:
Click
here now!
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